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Hii Guys!!! I am again here with you with a new interesting topic about daily life. Today we will talk about why no one likes you and why every time you get ignored ?, 

Do You know that many good people ignored in this world only because of their simplicity, nice behavior and because they are straight forward.

So here will talk about some points that why no one likes you and you always get ignored? 

 1. You Care a Lot About Everyone :

                                                                                               If you care a lot about everyone in every single task and you not want to see everyone in trouble and just want to see everyone happy. And if you do this for a longer time then you will definitely loose your importance.

 2. You are Very Emotional :

                                                If you are very emotional person and easily gets attached to anyone who talks nicely with you first time, than you may be ignored because only a few are nice and emotional like you.

3. You are a Straight Forward Person :

                                                                   If you are a straight forward person and you are very clear about your thoughts, talks and your promises then congratulation you will be get ignored because every one will doubt you that you can be so nice person like this, they will not believe you and will start ignoring you.

4. You can't Lie : 

                          If you loves to speak truth and you know that if you lie then you are just betraying yourself, than congratulations no one will like you, because this world stands on mendacity/cheat.

5. If You are Self Centric :

                                           If you are self centric and improving yourself in good deeds, and not indulging in stupid things because you want to utilize your time to make yourself better, than congratulations no one will like you because this world stands on politics.

6.  If You can't Bear Injustice :

                                                    If you can see or bear Injustice with you and reacts immediately because you don't have anything negative about anyone in yourself and you want to raise your voice against injustice with you because you can plan intrigue for anyone, then congratulations you will be get ignored.


7. You Expect Something from Everyone :

                                                                       If you expect that if you behave nicely with anyone then  he should also behave nicely with you then you are wrong because it doesn't mean that if you are good then everyone will be good, you can't expect anything from anyone if you expected anything then surely you will be get hurt. So do not expect anything from anyone.

# Takeaways :

If you have above qualities then it doesn't mean that you are inferior and you are not good because these are your strengths and you are unique, you have such qualities from that you can achieve anything.

  • Being true with yourself is the biggest achievement that not everyone have.
  •  If you are very emotional then its also your strength because you can't cheat important persons of your life and because of that they will love you a lot.
  • If you are straight forward person then you will be also straight forward in your life goals, and you will achieve your goals very sure.
  • If you are self centric then you can improve yourself a lot.

How Masculine And Feminine Nature Works In a Relationship


Hii Buddiess, Today I'll talk about different nature of men and women which make a direct effect on relationship and makes a relationship stronger or weaker. 
We have these nature - 
  1. Masculine 
  2. Feminine
And "more masculine, more feminine, masculine and feminine both.

I think about 85% of people, men and women, heterosexual or homosexual have either a nature (physically, mentally, sexually) that is more masculine than feminine or more feminine than masculine. Most people have a certain essence in their being.

Which game you want to play, which dress you like, with whom you want to be, which friend circle you like girl or boys, which sexual partner you want, which type of your behavior will be, and etc. it's all depends on your nature, which type of nature you have masculine or feminine.

- What Does Man Want : A man wants that woman should think like him, and should deal like him, Keep calm in all the situation and deal with patient.

- What Does Woman Want : A woman wants that man should understand her feelings, should listen his talks, should share all the things with her and should response her feelings.

So If man is plus(+) then woman is minus(-) like electricity wire and only because of that relationship becomes stable between man and woman. But most of the time we don't understand the nature of each-other and that becomes the reason of tension between our relationship.

So how we can deal with it, here in this article I am telling you some tips to overcome from this situation, we should understand and respect these differences -

1. Results And Feelings :

Men Are Result Oriented - Men don't want to share their feelings or problems with other they want to solve it on their own behalf otherwise they they will discuss their problem with a wise person who can give them a solution. They don't want to panic their partner with their little problems.

Women Are Feelings Oriented - Women are feeling oriented because they share their problems and feelings because a woman can't hide her feelings like man, she want to express her feelings, a woman doesn't want your suggestion or solution so don't give her any solution. But you just only need to understand her, So respect her feelings.

Tip - Understand your male partner's care about you, don't doubt him when he hide something with you, and respect your female partner's feelings don't give her solutions all the time.

2. Men Go To The Caves And Women Talks :

When a man depressed or stressed, he only wants to keep calm and wants to think about it. And when a woman depressed or stressed, she wants to talk with other person and wants to share all the things.
 So we should understand these type of nature of each- other.

Tip - If you are having a fight with your partner and you speaks and your male partner keeps calm it doesn't mean that he does't care about you or doesn't love you, and if your female partner talks too much it doesn't mean that she is bad or irritating it's only her nature.

3. Man Wants To Feel Needed Woman Wants Care :

A man wants to fulfill all the needs of his family, and note that "how much his love needs him" he will be more successful and it feels him good. And woman only wants care and love.

Tip - Present time everyone wants to be independent weather a man or a woman and this is good also but we should care about each-other's feelings.

4. Men are Like Rubber Band And Women are Like Waves :

Behavior of man is like rubber band because when a man is in stress, he will go to his friends and will go to play a game but at last he will come to his love. but woman is opposite, a woman's behavior is like wave because at a time she will love you but another time she will hate you, it's like up and down like a wave.

5. Pointing Game of Men And Women :

If a man give a rose to his love he thinks that she will give him 1 point and if he give her 2 rose he thinks that he will be given 2 points, 5 rose = 5 points, but a woman will give him only 1 point 1 rose or 5 rose doesn't matter here. SO it doesn't matter how big you are doing for her, she will be always happy with little things you are doing for her like - daily hug, compliment on her achievement, spending quality time with her, giving her gifts like- rose, chocolates and etc. So Every simple and easy thing will make a point for a man and will feel a woman that her partner care about her a lot.


So that's it guys, At last I would like to say you that we should understand each-other's feelings, nature and should believe on each-other.

So please share this article with your friends and please comment your precious opinion below.





7 Proven Gentlemen Tricks To impress Everyone


Hiii, Guys!, Again I am here with an interesting topic for you. Now I am thinking to write a full series of article on lifestyles and daily life. Which will be very helpful for your daily normal life and will make your life better. And these articles will also help you to increase your confidence and will make your life easy. So please let me know your opinion by commenting below.

So Today I'll tell you "7 Different Ways to Be A Gentlemen Which will Help You To Impress Everyone". According to me I thinks that everyone should wear these simple qualities to be a perfect man who lives his life beyond its limits.. So let Just Start -

1. Maintain Personal Hygiene - 

                                                      A Gentlemen should look good 
with a proper smell. Dressing well doesn't mean that you should wear expensive cloths it means that you can wear simple and normal cloths but your dressing sense should be perfect. Follow these points -

  • Make sure to bath regularly.
  • Don't overuse of perfume or deodorant, use in a balanced way. An overpowering odor--even of cologne or body spray--is not pleasant, and can be offensive.  
  • It doesn't mean that you can only attract anyone by your charming look, If you are clean, hygiene and well dressed you can simply attract by your simple look.
  • Always wash hands after you use bathroom.

2. Use HandkerChief or Tissue -

                                                                                   Always take handkerchief or tissue with you. because these are the things which you can need anytime and will help you always to be hygiene. Don't wipe your hands with your own cloths and anything else, wipe your hands with handkerchief or tissue.

3. Well Grooming -

                                                 Groom yourself well because well grooming always helps you to create a better personality. 
  • Be creative with your hairstyle, try to wear a perfect hairstyle and beard which fits on your personality. 
  • Even having clean nails makes a difference. Clean under your fingernails and trim them every day or two to make sure your hands have a neat appearance.
  • Trim out unusual and unwanted hairs which looks ugly like -  nose's hair and hairs of your other body parts.

4. Know Your Boundaries -

                                                                      Know your boundaries in your life. Don't interfere in other's privacy. Like - 
  • Don't use other's phone, Don't try to open and read the chatting conversation in other's mobile.
  • Don't use other's things without their permission.
  • Don't be so stick with anyone too much, let them give some privacy.
  • Don't talk anyone too much if they are not interested.
  • Don't ask anyone about their private things if they don't want to tell you.

5. Take Good Care of Other's Things And Don't be Upset By Listening "No" - 

                                            If you Borrow anything from other's then please don't misuse of it and take care of it, Because misusing of their things can hurt them, they give it to you because they trust on you so never break their trust. You can also return that borrowed thing in a better condition then older, it can be a way to thanking them or also increase their trust on you. And don't get upset if they said "no" to you because there can be reason behind it.

6. Be Polite With Everyone -

                                                                          Be polite with everyone because Gentlemen always be polite with everyone weather they men, women, kid, old man and anyone else.
  • Help people Around you
  • Make Polite conversation
  • Don't talk about yourself too much
  • Avoid bringing up controversial or uncomfortable topics
  • Treat everyone with respect

7. Proper Response To Invitations -

                                                                                           Be straight with your response. If anyone is inviting you for something then give him a proper response in "Yes or No" that you "Can or Can't".

Like -  If anyone is inviting you for a party then give him a perfect answer that you can come or you can't come. It will be bad if you said yes but at the end time you forbade him and pretend anything else because this will waste all of his preparation and efforts and can hurt his feelings.


So guys these are the best 7 tips to be a gentlemen and to impress anyone. 

I hope you enjoyed it, if you enjoyed then please share it and comment below...

Good byee Guys.. 


Hiii Guys..!! As we all know that everyone has a crush on someone and wants to know that - Is she loves her or not?. According to normal lifestyle every human being shows his feelings by body language. So if you wants to know that she wants to be with you or not then you have to notice her body language when she is arround you. So here I am telling you 11 signs that she is interested in you and wants to be with you :-



1. She Makes Eye Contact :

Eye contact or ‘eye play' as it is referred to by many people, is perhaps the most suggestive and confirmative of all signs. And she doesn't even blink when she looks at you. And she always stares you from the distance.

2. Personal Questions :

If she spends a considerable amount of time trying to get to know you better, it is a sure sign that she has taken a liking for you. No girl would waste her time trying to find out what your favorite color is, or what your favorite food for breakfast is, unless she’s genuinely into you. So, if you’re getting bombarded with questions such as those, you can assume that she’s showing you the green light.

3. She Keeps Getting Closer When Distant Is An Option :

Have you have noticed that even during formal conversation and in circumstances when physical proximity wasn't needed, she seemed unusually close to you? She might change her seat during a meeting or lunch to be seated next to you or might. 
She always finds the ways to get closer to you.

4. She Laughs at Your Jokes :

A woman who laughs a lot during your conversation or often laughs at your jokes obviously likes your company very much!. 

If the silly jokes that fetched an insult or a funny look at best earlier, have suddenly turned into ‘laughter’ (even though your jokes are the same silly ones or probably worse!), she definitely is warming up to your company and probably more! 

5. She Starts The Conversation :

If she always wants to be with you and she is interested in you then that is a strong point.  If she starts a conversation with you and talks with you a lot, It means she likes to talk with you and interested in you.

6. Enjoys Your Company :

She asks you to accompany her to social events where she flaunts you to her friends, introduces you to her siblings and takes pictures with you. Spending two hours with her feels likes two minutes leaving both of you wanting more. And she feels comfortable with you.

7. She'll give You her Number :

Women do not give away their phone numbers to just any guy she meets. So, if she’s the one giving you her number, you can take it as a sign that she might be interested.

8. She Touches you :

If a woman doesn’t like you, she is not going to touch you at all. So, if she casually places her hand on your arm, or pushes you, or holds out a hand to be pulled up, you can go ahead with your intuition of her liking you.

9. Always Smiles at You when you Passes Away :

If a girl gives you a genuine smile, she enjoys being around you, but isn´t necessarily attracted to you (still a possibility).

10. How her friends reacts :

If a girl likes you from the way her friends react to you. If they suddenly come up with excuses to be elsewhere, leaving the two of you alone, it is a sign that she has confided in them about liking you and they are playing along to give you and her some privacy.

11. She Complements You :

Women have very little practice complimenting men. Women often give compliments to each other; but when a woman compliments a man, it is generally a very good sign. Whether it's a compliment to your looks, your clothes, or your personality, appreciate the comment and see this as a good sign of interest!

So Guys that's it.. thanks for reading.. Follow me for more updates.


                                              
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